When Lucca was 10 years old, he depended on predictability to feel safe. While other children his age were attending parties, joining teams, and visiting friends’ houses, Lucca’s everyday experiences felt overwhelming. Shared play was difficult. Direction often felt threatening. Daily routines, especially toileting, could escalate into emotional meltdowns that left his family exhausted and uncertain about what the future might hold.

For Lucca’s mom, Landra, the hardest part was not the diagnosis of autism and PANDAS. It was wondering if her son would be able to live a happy and independent life. After moving to Indiana, Landra brought Lucca to 321go Kids for pediatric occupational therapy.

Patrick, an occupational therapist with 321go Kids, focused on connection rather than correction. “When Lucca first came to 321go Kids, he wasn’t able to accept direction, and even small challenges often led to a meltdown,” Patrick explained. “My first job wasn’t to fix anything. It was to build trust, to have fun, and to show him that he was safe.”

Through play-based occupational therapy, Patrick created an environment where Lucca could relax and explore at his own pace. Sensory play and emotional regulation activities helped Lucca begin to trust, engage, and slowly loosen his need for rigid control.

“Unlocking Lucca’s ability to play became the foundation for all of his progress,” Patrick noted. “Without that trust, nothing else would have worked.” Over time, Lucca began inviting Patrick into his world. He initiated imaginative games, practiced taking turns, and laughed freely. One evening, Landra heard a recording playing from Lucca’s bedroom. It was Patrick’s playful voice from therapy, guiding an imaginary circus act. Lucca was replaying joy and connection on his own terms.

Not every step was easy. Toileting remained one of Lucca’s most significant challenges. Once he could accept structure and direction, Patrick developed a routine using a story. Landra and her family practiced it daily, even though progress was slow.

“You can’t force Lucca to do anything he doesn’t want to do,” Landra shared. “Patrick laid the groundwork. He showed Lucca that he was safe. When Lucca was ready, it finally clicked.” Patrick remembers receiving the text message confirming the breakthrough while mowing his lawn. He cried right there in his backyard.

Today at 13, Lucca plays with friends, seeks out connections, and continues to grow in independence and confidence. Occupational therapy empowered Lucca to navigate his challenges and helped his family rediscover hope for his future. Landra advises other parents: “You are your child’s biggest advocate. Don’t settle. Find someone who helps your child the way they deserve.”

Stories like Lucca’s demonstrate how meaningful change can happen when a child feels safe enough to trust, communicate, and play. If you know a family looking for this environment, encourage them to contact 321go Kids.